Suz

And part of it was myself, to be honest. I was pretty inexperienced with women and dating at the time. I was also unemployed and even had to move back home to live with my parents at the time (!). [I was a math postdoc and my grant had run out and it was being renewed for me month-to-month. She was an administrator in the department I worked and that is where we met.] I could also be arrogant and abrasive. And I'm prone to losing sexual interest fast, all the while building an emotional connection. That's a rough combination.

Boisterous

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Coprolalia

It went fabulously, and he insisted on paying for everything. There was alot of positive body language, but no kiss.

Textout

So my ex was a player. Wanted me til he got me!

Caeneus

So if he already has that sense of humor then why can’t I? And why can’t I assume he’s just gonna understand like he did with me? These are rhetorical questions by the way.

Vindex

Originally Posted by shanny

Christen

Nights out.

Milligram

Three days had passed. I did not make any attempts to contact him. It seemed to be becoming one-sided even before that. I would enthusiastically reply any time he wrote me, but it would take him longer and longer to respond. I did not want to feel as if I were bugging him or doing all the pursuing, so I kind of chilled out and let him do the contacting. Then he quit contacting me at all. Maybe I jumped the gun?

Zymurgy

If she says, "That sounds nice, but...." You could interrupt (kindly) and say,.... "But...???"

Mrobert

That's a keeper!

Mikhail

On a more serious note, you should break it off with her. Yeah, that's right, she's actually spending all her days with him and even nights, and if you think they are playing chess... than you're wrong, she's probably not clever enough for that.

Montauk

I have been with my b/f for over year. Although I really don't think this has anything to do with cheating, it has just been bothering me more lately. I see him about three days a week and we don't always go out in order to save money so we just hang out at his place. He is the type of person that if he is just sitting on the couch not really doing much--he will fall asleep. If we are out at a bar or club--he is fine. But it seems like it has gotten worse. In the beginning he used to be able to atleast stay up with me til 1 am and then he would drive me home and drive back to his place which is out of the way and then go home and then to work. Now i stay over so he can get more sleep. By the time we even get back to his place it is almost 9( because of my job). The thing is I am feeling frustrated that by the time we eat or I eat and then watch tv-he is falling in and out of sleep. He does not have such a demanding job and gets out at about 4:30 or 5. It makes me wonder--what is he doing with his time that he is so tired. It gets me annoyed as well. It makes me think -is he getting this bored that he can't even stay up with me past 11 pm. We don't even talk to much when there. Another thing that really made me mad was we would kiss and maybe make out for a little bit and he would of course be awake for that. A little bit after stopping-in and out of sleep again. He was expecting for me to sleep with him as well and all he is doing is falling in and out of sleep. Of course he would be up for that part but right after--back to sleep. It makes me feel like i am almost being used. I really don't know if i am overreacting but it makes me feel like the effort is decreasing. Of course I have mentioned but he says he can't help it. But--on saturdays he can pick me up straight from work or around 6 because I do not work and we would have a little more time together and he can go to sleep early if he wanted but he never mentions doing that. Its usually around 10 pm that he picks me up and it makes me wonder why is he happy with that--why wouldn't he want to see me earlier if he could. Thanks for reading.

Ascarides

Not me She has said herself she uses guys for money.