Languages

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and love him a lot, but sometimes feel he doesn't feel the same. The other day he was drunk and said 'I don't offer him anything', and that 'other girlfriends in the past have never made him feel like that before'. He has said many things like this to me in the past. I try my best, but feel sometimes he loses interest in me, so I only make as much effort as he does. I feel like he is not over his ex GF and is just with me to replace what he had with her, or because he is lonely and wants a relationship. One time he said I have 'no character, no conversation'. I just wonder why on earth he would be with someone he feels that way about. He isn't as affectionate as he once was, he seems preoccupied most of the time. Mostly the only time he is affectionate is when we have sex. Half the time if I am with him he is on his phone or laptop and I don't even exist to him. I also once caught him looking at his ex-GF's instagram profile, and he has recently been liking this girls photos constantly whenever she uploads, since he has been with me, even though that is just a silly little thing it just adds to my paranoia. I don't feel relaxed in this relationship, but I don't know whether it's him or whether I would be like this regardless of who I was with.

Kisra

What can I say? A typical Sagittarius guy. You can look it up because I'm 99% of the personality description. Love Language? Definitely major in touch with a minor in quality time. Don't be afraid to.

Cubicone

I'm old enough to know better that's for sure! but I turn 44 in.. 4 days! (gulp) and yea, I hate playing games and it wasn't my intent at all when I wouldn't call him... the whole thread started as a general question when guys say they are going to call you by such and such a time and then don't. With this particular guy.. well, we have somewhat of a history together... dated, and then it's over... he's back again... then yep, it's over again! This time around we are "just friends" although I think we were both sort of testing the waters..? anyho, I've gotten to the point with this guy where I refuse to chase him. I sometimes think that's what he wants me to do... but in the past when I did it bit me in the butt. I figure if he wants to see me he can call me... especially since he was the one that ended things... well the first time he was and the second time we both sort of decided... even though I still really liked him, he just wasn't able to step up the way I needed him to.

Paltrow

mid 30ies

Bailie

there is another thread going that was started this morning on this very subject.. sort of...

Rorie

It's a very generic check list. Nothing special to it. We all want a partner that is intelligent, stable, playful, etc. Everyone you will meet will be on their best behavior and will appear to have all of those at first. You need a list with more specific items.

Gratulation

However, in my past 2 relationships (4yr, 2yr) I did feel like I was being taken adventage of. I wouldn't say anything, and then eventually he's staying over at my place 2 nights, then 5 nights, then every night of the week, eating my food, living rent-free, not really having a life of his own because he's "broke"...in both situations I became very resentful and it was one of the main reasons I broke up with them.

Setter

a-cup

Fedoruk

love that lil ass spillage

Argot

2 great lil butts

Puffers

shes cute eh?

Anchors

So most of my past relationships/dating has been from meeting in person or via friends but now i wanted to try online dating. Is it good? Can you find real love out of it? What are some good websites/app??

Wooshed

I would like to talk to him about this but I'm going to save it until after we vacation together (We are going on a vacation at the end of October and I don't want to ruin it). I feel like we may break up if I bring this up because it is something serious to me. I understand that back in the day sixteen year olds used to be getting married.. and to older men as well. But that is not so anymore. I don't care if biologically we are made to be attracted to certain things, I am thouroughly disgusted and I think I'm going to have to stick up for myself because this will affect other aspects of the relationship if I just bury it deep inside.

Fikriye

From Left To Right Out Of 54,3,4.5,2

Bilbao

But who am I kidding. You won't do that. You're too afraid of facing the consequences of your actions.

Spiccato

Hi.i know someone is out there for me. But not talking and adding me to your favourites. I cant see who you are. Say hi. If your local . I dont do long distant relationship. Not for m.

Immaterial

The one on the left, she has the attitude that she's hotter and she's right!

Butchko

Originally Posted by curious_gurl

Atmospherical

Oh my f'ing goddesses - instant fav!