Yawetag

To make a long story shorter (I can fill more details in later if need be), I think that this guy’s mom and her mom are still pushing for this to happen. Things in the mean time with us seem to get better as time goes on. I’ve managed to control all my tendencies with a little hiccup from time to time, but nothing near what was going on before. I’m not sure what to do here. All I keep telling myself is to be myself, not revert to what I was doing before, and things will work out. I just don’t know if I should say something to her mom about kindly staying out of this (and I’ve bonded with her parents in the last month or so without bringing anything up from last May), or just not say anything at all in the hopes that my choice to change for the betterment of myself (and our relationship) will be enough. PLEASE HELP!!! I’ll be more than happy to answer anything in question, but I just want to get the discussion rolling because I need answers (or suggestions). Thanks.

Jake

I went to the movies with this guy-- who I've had a crush on for a while now-- last night. We saw The Amityville Horror... scary movie. He picked me up, I paid for both of us (he was my airport shuttle a couple months back and I told him I'd do something nice for him, this was it). The theater was practically empty, and all the arm rests were up. Now, going into the night I was open to anything, and I didn't want to force the arm rest down between us and make it seem like I was cutting options out or anything like that. So, I decided that if he wanted to, then that was cool. We sat, he pulled the armrest down on the opposite side of him, and left the one in the middle up. See, this is where I'm confused. Usually if a guy wants to hold my hand or something, he'll just do it, especially if all the signals are there. He did the whole resting his hand on his leg three inches away from my body thing, and didn't touch me once throughout this scary movie. In his defense, he's a shy guy, and when I get scared I kinda ball up and fidget. Now that I think about it, maybe I didn't appear as open to possibilities as I should have, I'm an idiot. Ok well, moving on... the movie ended, we got in the car-- he didn't open the door for me, that kind of bothered me. But whatever, at that point in time he could've been under the impression that I wasn't interested or something (listen to me make excuses for him!). We drove home, the long way, behind the only car driving slow on an empty street. Then to finish off the night, we sit in his car for an hour in front of my place talking about anything and everything. We came to the subject of some girl... she liked him, then he liked her and the timing was off. Umm, I kinda started feeling awkward at that moment (I've had a crush on him off and on for a year, he found out last August). The girl he was talking about wasn't me, but inside I started getting so nervous. It was close to 1am, so I said I had to get to bed and I got out of the car and left. I don't think he realized that I only left because I got nervous, but now that I'm rethinking the entire night, could I have blown it?

Carpi

Love, Love those IBT and those eyes. WOW

Berbers

Good Luck and please reconsider your position.

Metters

Hi.I am working man who has lived many lives on high and low and have come to appreciate things more a intimate level. A creature of habit with 🔥 in my blood lo.

Delpapa

Damu that is hot

Tripes

But here I am now, wasted almost three years of my life, I'm 27 now and I always thought at this age I would either be married or at least have a boyfriend who'd propose soon. Now I have to begin from the start and I'm scared. Most people I know are in relationships or married, some with kids. I'm scared that now I will never find someone. That everyone in my target group (late 20ies til mid 30ies) is already taken or has 'baggage' (I don't want to date someone with kids). I want a family and a couple of kids and I'm scared if I don't find a man soon, I will die alone. At the same time, I would never settle for just any man of course. I rather die alone than being in the wrong relationship. Still, I'm scared. I'm not 23 anymore.

Glost

Do you really believe he hasn't been having sex with this girl?