Sebastian

If you are having sex, you have the right to ask if he's seeing anyone else. It's just commonsense and personal safety.

Autosuggestion

Ok..here it goes....I was introduced to a guy at the gym way back in September, he had asked about me and been smiling and saying "hi" so my trainer introduced us....I was told my someone who had dated his good buddy that he had been engaged and had his heart broken and was very careful about dating......I invited him along with me and my friends to parties, nights out, etc...and he always had an excuse...BUT, he kept calling me....kept talking to me at the gym....over Xmas, I was sick..he called and asked if he could bring me anything...one night we FINALLY agreed to go out around 8 and that he would pick me up...he said he would call to get directions that he was going to go out with a buddy from 5 to 7 and have a couple of drinks and that he would call me to get directions when he was on the way....I waited and waited...he never called...he never showed up....this was Friday...MONDAY I get a text message saying, sorry about Fri...I just got out of jail.....anyways, this was his idea of a joke and he said that his friend's car had gotten towed and that his cell was in it and he apologized for Fri.....I decided that that was it...not going to even think about him again...BUT he kept calling....he came over on a Thurs...we hung out, it was nice. we kissed....Mon am, he calls and asks me out to lunch....we meet and are sitting outside eating when three girls walk up, say hi to him and one kisses him on the lips....he clearly looked uncomfortable...we were done eating, so when he was done talking to the girl, we got up to go....she stuck her head out the door (we were outside) and asked him to come talk to her for a second...he went inside....I waited outside for him...and I waited and waited...he never turned around to say, I'll be right there, or let me call you later, this is going to take longer than I thought...nothing.....so I leave after like 15 minutes...I call him cell and lv a mess.....hey this is _____, remember me, the person you just had lunch with....I waited for you for quite a while and you guys looked pretty busy, so I am leaving,thanks for lunch.....I wait hours, no call..finally I text him and demand an explanation...he writes back that it was a girl that he has been seeing and that she was upset about seeing him out with me and he owed her an explanation...I tried to explain that the time to have given her this explanation would have been sometime between thurs and mon, but NOT on our lunch date and at the expense of blowing me off (this guy is 37!!! I am 36, we are NOT kids)......he said, well how was I to know that I would get along with you so well, and up until now I have only been dating her and needed to tell her that I was on a date with you...I said, sounds like a girlfriend to me..he said no......ANYWAYS, I told him that he has blown me off before and that the lunch experience sure felt like being blown off again.....he said I was reading too much into it....Fri we text all day and I say ,just call me, text sucks for communicating....he texts back "have any wine" (the time he came over we sat and had wine and talked), making me think that he that he is hinting that he wants to come over and have a glass of wine and talk...this is around 4pm on Fri...I text him back that I have the same wine as before...I haven't heard from him all weekend despite me texting him a couple of times asking him what happened on Fri night? What is this guy's problem???I am an atractive woman and not to be rude, but this much younger girl that we ran into on our lunch date wasn't even remotely cute, I was pretty surprised because he is a nice looking guy, although pretty short..but I don't care about that...why does he keep calling (albeit sporatically) and texting me only to keep blowing me off....what do I tell him, what do I do? I dont get this guy AT ALL!!!

Firenet

No, she didn't forget. She just went silent. I have not called or texted her since.

Sekella

Love the see through shirt lefty is wearing

Dispensary

wow again

Theodori

If none of those reasons work for you intellectually - and they don't have to -- you should back off. Because trying to stay together when you resent him & her actions will only make everyone unhappy.

Sibbald

I am divorced, I am 56yrs young, I am an LPN, I work 3-11 shift off on weekends, I like to have fun, I don't think you can have to many friend.

Cameras

I'm a short girl, 5"1.5

Tallett

very petite

Aniekan

Well I'm glad you have been empathetic. I told my friend who said I let him think I was too easy, and I should not have spent too much time with him on the first date, or replied to a 2 am text. I didn't like the way it made me feel. It didn't help that per se, I was pretty unhappy.

Flavid

she has the nice tits

Roadhead

Cuuute

Janeen

Thank you, randomizer!!

Mucin

black white string bikini blonde sunglasses bending over

Boily

Hi. I am real if you looking for me to send you iTunes cards or money forget it not going to happen so that's your game go play it with another ma.

Powerfully

I hope that now this clears your head, and that you will be able to turn toward your future and start proving yourself to the people you want in your life, moving forward by being the person you want to be, instead of turning around, looking backward, and needlessly proving yourself to the people you will be leaving behind.

Tasajo

Somehow creepy O.o

Bloomin

I'm a mother of two girls who are 4 and 1, as well as looking for change. I want love not lust and hope that I find Mr. righ.