Melancholic

Hope for the best...Prepare for the worst.

Venthan

You forget one thing, the economics here in Africa, I can find someone realty easily if I scrape the bottom of the barrel and play basic economics but that isn't me, I'd rather actually help that person try and get onto the road where they want to be, than to take advantage of the fact I might have things they aspire to have.

Kervran

I am kind and have a sweet heart and want someone who loves me for me. No drugs, no fwb, and no pedos. I am not skinny but I don't think I am ugly. I have a huge heart, and I have a brain. No games.

Torched

I used to be intimidated by guys who had slept with large numbers of women. I don't think I would be so intimidated now. Not because I have slept with huge numbers of men (I haven't) but because I am more comfortable, in general, with myself, my body, and my sexuality/sexual response. Age has been good to me, in this way.

Kfoster

He insists that he's not looking and that's he's faithful to me. I really want to believe him, but why lie about all this?

Shelfy

Nice and petite!

Sortman

By the way, any woman who mentions penis size to a prospective lover is not very nice, or smart. We women know a confident, secure man makes the best lover. So, most women strive to make sure their guy feel that way.

Ughs

Tired of what ?,,Tired of the dating, the looking for Ms. Right,,etc. .

Carolan

I understand why you're upset, but at the the same time - you need to be realistic and wake up. This guy does not care about you. It's been 6 months and you're "casual." Therefore, he is under no obligation to remember your birthday or anything like that. You give a guy strings-free sex, he's going to take it, and he's NOT going to turn into a boyfriend when there is no reason for him to turn into one. And if he's not a boyfriend, he's not going to act like one.

Romania

So I am afraid you will have to assume that in fact he is cheating. All the signs pint to it and the Viagra Rubbing one out is about as weak an act as there is.

Eutopia

I'm going to say the moral of this story is to NOT ask a girl to be your girlfriend.. I don't know what I was thinking there. I might have been able to get away with that when I was younger (and social media wasn't as prevalent in the dating world as it is now giving girls endless options) but I spooked her mentioning that she should just be my girlfriend after only six weeks of dating her. I guess I'm just used to taking the initiative doing whatever I want, but I should have let her bring it up. The rest of the time we spent together was dialed, but I came off as needy in this case and it was enough to make her lose interest and next me. She probably thought there was something fishy about me going straight for the kill (without making her work too hard for it), not realizing that I'm very picky and I know what I like.

Cepheus

I would describe myself as someone who is honest, caring, intelligent, hardworking, and ambitious. I have a great sense of humor. I am an easy going person & don’t get easily disturbed by down’s in.

Esere

Met a girl on bumble a little over a month ago. We've gone out about 7-8 times and overall it moved very quickly for the first two weeks maybe more. She seemed so excited and genuinely seemed very interested. It seemed like she couldn't get enough of me because she always wanted to get together.

Submitted

I've never had an issue making an emotional connection with a woman. I was the guy willing to hold them tightly when they were crying, and being the one they can confide in when everyone appears to have turned their back on them.

Lmerkel

Well anyway, recently (earlier this week) she had a chance to meet up with her couple again, and I haven't asked any questions about what went down, because I don't want to seem like I am suspicious, but also because I am partially fearful of what I might learn. Before she went out with them she texted me that she loved me and missed me and she can't wait to see me again, etc. Which made me feel more comfortable about things, but I imagine that was her intended goal with the texts.

Ryce

See, the issue here isn't the sex, it's the whole emotional aspect of living with someone 24/7 that you feel should be reserved for marriage. If your BF wants so badly to live together first, it kind of sound like a clash in value systems to me. However, it should be work-through-able.