Miamian

Its only been 3 months since my partner of 10 years left me (GIGS/affair/midlfie crisis/i love you but...) I was devastated,as those who read my previous posts will see. My doctor put me on a short course of prozac because i wasnt sleeping, was having bad anxiety and depressed (these are ongoing medical issues for me). The meds have helped enormously though i am not happy about being on them. I still 'feel' though, i'm not numb. I have done a huge amount of emotional 'work' around the breakup, journalled, read breakup books, made changes for the better in my life, I have grieved very deeply. Of course I am still very sad about the loss of my previous relationship, but i also now feel a strength and confidence i never knew i had. Anyway, thats the background..

Sundhar

Looking for a good tim.

Despotic

sweet sweet blonde cutie trying to look innocent

Frill

I never have sex early, and I do very well sorting out the insincere in whatever form it takes. Liars are liars. Unless they are a true sociopath, there will be tells.

Jarvah

If he doesn't take the hint at that and say "I do" then work it back into conversation and ask:

Autarky

OP, she may have been into you at some point or maybe she thought flirting was just fun. But based on her response when you asked her out again, she only sees you as a friend.

Squarer

Im just joing this for the hell of it, planning on moving down there after high school. By the way i easily understand "girl talk". Girls to me is like patrick and spongebob. I like being close to.

Obecalp

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Oysters

She is beautiful! I hope there is more.

Adan

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Grand

tummyfan - what do you say bout her?

Baerbel

Words don't capture her beauty and her hospitality. She truly is the best in this entire website. Maybe even in Dubai.

Coactor

I have not yet arranged another date with her since the end of the last date as I know she is busy until next week, however she did mention during the last date it would good if she could come round and cook me dinner as I cooked her dinner last time she was over. I am planning to call her up tomorrow evening to arrange something.

Deistic

That's an interesting conclusion to come to. Exclusivity just means not seeing other people...It says nothing about his desire to get in your pants. But I must say every time a guy asked to be bf/gf after the 1st, 2nd, 3rd date I always assumed he was trying to get in my pants. He thought I'd be more likely to go to bed with a complete stranger if that complete stranger was my 'boyfriend'.

Willdon

"give respect get respect" threesome denim shorts...... O.O QUADRUPLE LIGHTSWITCH!!!!

Insanin

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Contrapunto

Same girl in yellow bikini#2363

Tampered

Not giving a shyte can work, if one can feel it authentically. For a normally caring person, such a change can be difficult, but possible. Perhaps situational 'not giving a shyte' is something which can be practiced and perfected. I learned a version of this while dealing with a mentally ill person for a number of years. I think many/most people learn such tools at a far younger age than I did. I find it a very useful tool now; helps in all kinds of interpersonal relations. I find it, and 'agree and/or redirecting' to promote a positive feeling, respecting both an intrinsic desire to care as well as the boundary of respect and civility from others.