Wees

Brilliant pop , damn, l'll try that and email her.

Culex

I know if I lost him I would be losing the absolute best love of my life and that would be so hard to take. I know he is not the only thing in life I have but I just love to hear how much he loves me. I am insecure even though he tells me daily I am the most beautiful girl he has ever met and dated. I know deep down that he loves me very much but I guess knowing it isn't reassuring enough so I feel the need to have to hear it often.

Diker

I think you may have to accept the fact that the relationship may well have been doomed from the moment she stepped back onto that plane to fly home. If nothing else, she was, even then, conflicted between doing what she wanted to do to be happy and keeping her parents happy, viz-a-viz the religious and cultural issues.

Huasheng

Dear, the way you have described this situation makes it sound as though you may be dealing with classic predator behavior. Consensual sex is not the issue so much as her not letting you end things. She is not respecting your feelings, which by the way are completely human... My guess, if you let the relationship progress, she will continue to make you feel bad whenever something you say or do, no matter how well-intentioned, kind-hearted, etc, threatens what she wants. I'm sure she is going through some things: wanting out of her marriage, etc, but she needs to take ownership and responsibility of her life. Right now, she has crossed the boundary from looking for a port in a storm to using you as her trash bin.

Tube

This is my first post on here and not really a happy one.

Topping

like the cocky face

Uniformed

Now that you've discovered this about yourself, just work on it in the future. It's great that you now know that when you get upset about certain things it's only because you expected things to be a certain way, and didn't know how to react when they weren't.

Erotism

She is emotionally not stable, that's for sure. The problem is... she doesn't seem to want to face her past and/or emotions. She's definately fleeing from it. In order for her to heal she must aknowledge this first, but I doubt she is willing to do that. Most people won't do this unless they hit rock bottom. She's not there yet.