Fahrens

That should be reason enough to let things go for now. If he's trying to sort through an ex gf situation, don't put yourself in competition. For all you know he mentioned that in front of you to send you the message that he's not available. I don't think he said it to make you jealous.

Wistit

I hear you. It can be overwhelming so much information and different ways to go about it especially when your emotions are involved. Ok, first of all you have done the perfect first step. Honestly, I think you have exactly pinpointed your problem. No one else could have said it better. So ok now we just have to work on the second part which I agree is where our emotions and logic are fighting a huge overthinking battle in our heads. Then you come on here to get advice and it's like your head's going to explode because it basically is post after post of the thoughts that run through your head. I'm not even saying, of course, that I have the right answer. I did (i think) just help someone who followed my advice (and probably used his own) because he posted on the friends/lovers board rather than dating so the opinions he was getting weren't as varied and he did seem pretty open-minded. Here is that thread: Odd relationship with a girl not sure what is going on!

Operatio

redheads are hot and she is a perfect example why :)

Bluejackets

I love this man more than anyone but am terrified of moving in/marrying/having children with someone who will leave me to do everything. I want somebody to share my life and soul with again.

Heartfelt

Wow though, I didn't think it was usually that quick! I feel like a slow, prudish man now. A lot of these ladies that exchanged messages with me have been for weeks. I guess I gotta initiate that sooner if I want anything to develop.

Benedictine

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Huskers

LMAO @ Gio

Leftwich

You are fast approaching a Rubicon that you cannot cone back from once you cross it.

Peps

I think I've taken into consideration alot of these things you've mentioned. In all honesty, the one thing I need to emphasize more is environment. Disregarding what a person's past might have been, there has to be an enormous influence based on where the interaction is occurring. Mixing that in with potential past experiences definitely acquires some inner intuition into an individual.

Squarer

looking for a girl who is spontaneous and knows what she want.

Spass

Hi Im a honest woman looking for a honest man to make a great journey of love and laughter wit.